Love in a F*cked-Up World: How to Build Relationships, Hook Up, and Raise Hell Together

In Love in a Fcked-Up World*, trans activist Dean Spade challenges readers to align their personal relationships with their political values. Blending personal insight with practical advice, Spade explores how cultural myths about love and relationships can undermine even the most committed activist communities. He calls for a radical shift away from harmful norms and toward connection, accountability, and emotional justice. This empowering guide offers tools for healing and building relationships rooted in liberation and mutual care. It’s both a manifesto and a roadmap for creating love that supports real social change.