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So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex: Laying Bare and Learning to Repair Our Love Lives

by Ian Kerner Author

Is something not right about your sex life? Maybe you're in a rut, or have mismatched levels of desire, or are just frustrated. Sexual detective Dr. Ian Kerner is ready to help you take a magnifying glass to your last sexual experiment so you can analyze what went right, what went wrong, and what to do about it. Breaking down the sequence of interactions, from beginning to middle to end, and looking at each step from multiple angles, you can see what "sex scripts" you and your partner may have been working off, and how to rewrite those scripts to maximize mutual pleasure and connection. The author of She Comes First, Kerner uses scientific insight, case studies, and homework assignments to help you actualize your best possible sex life.