Enjoy Sex (How, When and If You Want To): A Practical and Inclusive Guide

Enjoy Sex is a super helpful guide to working through your sexual issues, starting with the basics of discovering your own assumptions and culturally absorbed messages, learning your specific wants and needs, and learning to communicate those to someone else and listen to them. The authors are extremely thoughtful and gentle, urging you to take your time, do only what feels safe and good, and establish self-care practices in case shit gets real. They assertively make no assumptions about your gender identity and desires, are very clear that sex can encompass a huge range of activities, thoughts, and feelings. Most books of sex advice are based on performance, positions, and goals; this one is about learning what is right for you, and acknowledging how everything about that may change over time.